Write to a sister
Letters for the ones carrying the weight.
Remember waiting for the post? Letters folded twice, doodles in the margins, a friend who actually knew you. That's what this is. Step off the feed, find the sister whose story feels familiar, and write to her like you mean it.
How it works
Three small steps
One
Join the list
Sign in, choose letters by post, email or either, and share what you'd love to write about.
Two
Browse and say hello
Read other members' profiles and send a short hello to someone whose story resonates.
Three
She says yes
We pass your hello on. If she'd like to write back, we introduce you both by email with the contact details you each chose to share.
Good to know
You're in control
- Nobody sees your email or address until you've both said yes. Then letter writers swap postal addresses, and email writers swap email addresses.
- Pen pals are separate from the gift exchanges. No gifts expected, though a postcard never hurt anyone.
- You can take yourself off the list at any time, and saying “not right now” to a hello is always fine. We'll let her know kindly.
- Be kind, and only share what you're comfortable with. If anything ever feels off, email admin@deareldestdaughter.co.
Nobody sees your contact details unless you both say yes. See our privacy notice.




